While there’s nothing wrong with domination if done right, sometimes the line between domination and being demeaning can get blurred.” Meanwhile, in a lot - not all but definitely a lot - of straight porn, there’s this idea that someone has to be demeaned, and generally that’s the female party. “Watching gay porn feels like you’re watching hot people having hot consenting sex. I feel like what appealed to me was the general lack of misogyny,” says Alisha, a 34-year-old from Texas. “I identify as a straight women, but in my early 20s, I discovered I enjoyed gay porn. Breaking things down further, the most popular gay subcategories women enjoy are bareback, big dick and “straight guys” (adding “straight guys” to my search terms right now).